Saturday, 16 January 2010

It's Never Impossible To Find Love Online

I love watching ramantic films. Boy meets girl. Get to know each other. Fall in love and they live happily ever after. Such films bring a feeling of ease knowing that in this world full of hate and chaos, love stands out - it always does!
Although I love the "we used to be the best of friends and then became lovers" kind of thing, I have to say that meeting the love of your life isn't limited to such an idea. Sure. It sounds sweet and cute but there are different ways of finding a life time partner and one of which is online dating.
http://planetsmilies.net/kaos-not-tagged-smiley-4746.gifOnline dating has turned the impossible into possible. It allows individuals to communicate over the internet, become friends and hopefully fall in love. It's a more difficult process due to distance and culture differences and "how couples manage those differences is the key to long-term success" (Paula Hall quoted from BBC News) - makes a lot of sense to me.

I know a lot of people who are pessimistic about the idea of finding love over the internet. Their defense is that it's impossible to find a perfect partner through online dating services. Come to think of it, a perfect partner doesn't exist at all. Whether you find your partner online or offline, you'll always find something wrong with him/her sooner or later. Relationships are hard which is why Hall's quote makes a good point - that the main key to achieving a long term happy relationship is to manage the hardships together.

Believe me when I say distance and cultural conflicts can and will never stop two people in falling in love and being together.

By the way, I am Maxi, a happy Filipina and a proud girlfriend to Janne of Sweden, signing off.


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